Sharing a car as a couple is not always easy. As evidence a study conducted by Auto Trader on arguing in couples as to what concerns this subject. While more than a third of respondents admit to arguing about the car, this mainly concerns young people. Thus, 25-34 year olds are those who say they argue the most about car sharing. They are followed by couples aged 17 to 24 years.
The points of view of men and women diverge on certain subjects. Barely one in three men trust their partner to take care of the children… but not their car, according to the study! Less than a fifth (19%) of drivers are more confident in their partner when caring for children, but not when driving a car.
This last statistic also concerns 31% of men but only 12% of women. 20% of respondents (29% of men, 14% of women) even trust their partner when it comes to taking care of their animals but do not trust their behavior.
This may be explained (but not justified) in part by the fact that, according to the study, women are more concerned about the fact that their partner does not tell them or does not allow them to change music in the car. . When men criticize the fact that their partner does not check the technical aspect of the vehicle (tire pressure, oil level, etc.).
A question of access to freedom
These tensions could arise because the car is supposed to be a door to freedom. She “symbolizes more than just a vehicle for some people, it can represent their freedom or even their hard work – things their partner should be able to understand and respect”, recalls Tina Wilson, relationship expert, interviewed by Auto Trader. Erin Baker, Editorial Director of Auto Trader, continues:
“The car can be (…) difficult to share.” “It’s often seen as a person’s ‘third space’, after their home and office. It’s no wonder people feel strongly about it and have strong opinions about how it works. it must be maintained and driven!” “Communication and understanding are two key elements to avoiding these conflicts.”
The 10 most common causes of friction over a car shared by a couple
- Leaving dirt in the vehicle – 34%
- Point out the driver’s driving errors – 27%
- Leave the tank almost empty – 22%
- Constantly change the driver’s seat –
- Not cleaning the car enough – 18%
- Play music too loud – 18%
- Being harsh with other drivers – 14%
- Being too picky about car cleanliness – 14%
- Never check tire pressure – 12%
- Never refill engine oil, water or windshield washer fluid – 11%
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To sum up
According to a study, the car can be a place of friction for couples. This is for many reasons, affecting all aspects of the automobile. The fault lies in the aspect of opening towards freedom that this object would represent.
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